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We are all different and unique, with different maps of the world, different expectations, different perceptions and different reactions. . There was a time in my life when I used to be so quick to react to what I perceived as unacceptable behaviour. I used to both label the person and the behaviour ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿฝโ€โ™€๏ธ . I dished it as hard as I was given it, if not harder and harsher.๐Ÿ˜ก . Eventually that took a big toll on me, on my emotions and my relationships. My emotions were in turmoil and my gut reactions were making me physically sick. . Nowadays, nothing and no one has the power to pull me back to that state because I am in control of my states and therefore my behaviour and I definitely try very hard not to hold people to a certain expectation or standard. It was me who needed to change and transform and not those people who unhinged me. . My friends even make fun of me nowadays because of my tolerance, patience and acceptance of such behaviour. Sometimes they ask โ€œWhy are you not reacting? Why does this not affect you? . Sometimes, I come across the same behaviour that used to irk me but it no longer phases me and it definitely doesnโ€™t warrant any reaction from me. . INSTEAD, my life has become more meaningful, abundant and happier because I truly accept everyone as they are and no longer try to change them, correct them or make them do things โ€œmy wayโ€. I meet them where they already are. . My biggest surprise is that with the NEW and IMPROVED me, those people are changing and transforming right in front of my eyes, they are becoming more mindful and more thoughtful even though I donโ€™t expect them to. . NOWADAYS, my life is full of gratitude and acceptance and I am thankful ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ 9 ♡ 1 ✍ March 21